The Stair Arms
Located in the Midlothian village of Pathhead, The Stair Arms offers a wedding setting that is warm, informal, and rooted in a strong sense of community. Rather than grandeur or scale, it appeals to couples who want their wedding to feel personal, sociable, and relaxed. It is particularly well suited to days where conversation, togetherness, and ease take precedence over ceremony for its own sake.
The character of The Stair Arms lies in its familiarity and comfort. As a long-established coaching inn, it has a lived-in quality that immediately puts people at ease. Weddings here tend to feel friendly and inclusive, with guests naturally settling into the rhythm of the day rather than waiting for formal cues. From a photographic perspective, this creates an environment rich in genuine interaction, laughter, and unguarded moments.
Ceremonies and receptions can be hosted on site, allowing the day to unfold without unnecessary travel or complication. The indoor spaces are straightforward and adaptable, making them easy to personalise and decorate to suit the couple’s style. Because the setting is unfussy, the focus naturally shifts to the people and the relationships in the room, which often results in photographs that feel honest and unforced rather than staged.
The surrounding village and nearby countryside also offer simple but effective opportunities for portraits. A short step outside provides quieter spaces away from the main celebration, allowing couples a brief pause in the day without feeling removed from it. These moments often produce some of the most reflective images, balancing the sociable energy of the venue with something calmer and more intimate.
Having photographed weddings at The Stair Arms, I understand the pace and character of the venue. It works best when allowed to be what it is: welcoming, straightforward, and people-focused. My approach as Lee Live: Wedding Photographer is to work unobtrusively within that atmosphere, capturing the natural flow of the day and the connections between guests, resulting in a wedding story that feels grounded, sincere, and true to the couple.































